Smooth Landings
The re-entry wasn’t going well. A colleague recently shared that they were having a very challenging time readjusting to work after taking time away.
Their vacation had been a total departure from their normal routine. They rented a remote cabin on a lake with no air conditioning, internet, cable, or even a radio. It had what they were looking for—peace and quiet.
They got what they were seeking—time to be, rather than time to do—which is how most of us live our lives in the real world. They read a lot and listened to podcasts on their phone. They could have checked email on their phone but didn’t.
Now, they’re back in the real world and wishing they were back by the lake but are well aware they have to reacclimate.
Their experience does not sound perfect to me. It would be too quiet and too isolated. But that doesn’t mean I won’t have similar issues when I return from my time away this summer.
What can we do to get back on track after time away? Here are some thoughts:
When possible, build in a buffer of a day or two following your return and before you show up at work. Whether your work is in the office or hybrid, if you have a day to transition, it can help you mentally prepare for what’s to come. Do some mindless tasks like unpacking and laundry and, if you’re ready, look at your email and prioritize what your next few days will bring.
Look at your schedule for the next few days and do your best to reschedule non-critical meetings later on your calendar.
Some people say it helps them to take an hour out of every day they’re on vacation to keep up with critical messages. If you do that, you will be prepared for any pending crisis. Of course, the negative is that you risk taking yourself out of relaxation mode; but if you are able to compartmentalize, you may find this helpful.
Don’t say yes to everyone who wants your attention. Of course, you will respond to requests from your manager but consider encouraging your staff to continue to manage things as if you aren’t there. This is a big step in learning how to successfully delegate and give you more time to ease back into the work.
Remember how it felt when you first returned from vacation and be kind to yourself. Plan some fun activities with family or friends. Schedule a massage. Play a round of golf. Read a book just for fun. Prioritize your work and say no when you can.
These tips may not make you feel like you are still on vacation, but they will hopefully help you make the transition from time away to real life.